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The anniversary That Isn't
I have to say I'm a little disappointed and unsettled. My 27th wedding anniversary is coming up on Friday, and well … I'm ok. I feel ok. ...
Dec 15, 20212 min read


What To Do When Your Boss Has Cancer
Art's boss was the third person we called the day my late husband, Art, was diagnosed with cancer. We were still in the doctor's office....
Dec 8, 20213 min read


If I get cancer, I hope I have Aetna Insurance
It's benefit renewal time for many and HR teams are in the middle of open enrollment (or should be wrapping it. If you have an employee...
Dec 1, 20213 min read


The Gift That Returns 10X For Your Employee with Cancer
I had raised my hand several times, asked a question, and commented in chat as they asked participants to do. But none of the facilities...
Nov 24, 20212 min read


She's 22 today!
When I went into labor with Pallas, I was sure I was having a boy. Art and I were never interested in finding out the sex of our kids....
Nov 22, 20213 min read


This is What Grieving Children Look Like
A break from the tips... to bring you grieving kids. This is what grief in children looks like. Do you see anything unusual? No? That's...
Nov 18, 20212 min read


3 Questions Your Employee, Who Is Dealing with a Health Crisis, Wants You To Ask
Managing an employee with a health crisis is not easy. You're balancing your need for the team to be productive and caring with your...
Nov 10, 20213 min read


What To Do When Your Employee Dies At Work
HR's role when there is traumatic death on site. On October 21, Alec Baldwin accidentally shot Halyna Hutchins and wounded Joel Souza....
Nov 3, 20215 min read


Are you a Segmentor or an Integrator?
Are you a segmentor or an integrator? Knowing what you are and what the employee with a health crisis is, is key to supporting them,...
Oct 27, 20213 min read


Are You a Lazy Manager?
Did you just say, "If you need anything, let me know" to your employee with a health crisis?" If so, you may be a lazy manager. I just...
Oct 20, 20212 min read


Hey, Your Biases About Cancer Are Hurting Everyone!
When you picture someone with cancer, what comes to mind? Bald, skinny, and sunken eyes? Yup, me too. You're not alone. But that image...
Oct 13, 20213 min read


How NOT to React When Your Employee Has Cancer
In 2020, the American Cancer Society estimated there would be 1,809,950 new cancer cases in the US. Of those, 43% will be between the...
Oct 7, 20214 min read


Cancer and the ADA: A Primer for Managers
When an employee tells you they have cancer, your first response probably isn't, "Oh, I need to check the ADA!" That is good because it...
Sep 29, 20213 min read


How to Manage an Employee with Cancer Guilt-Free
"Now is not a good time for you to have cancer!" That is what I wanted to say to a friend who shared their cancer diagnosis with me via...
Sep 22, 20213 min read


Don't say "If you need anything, let me know."
I overheard someone say this to a friend the other day and I wanted to slap the phone out of her hand and say, "No, don't say that." I'm...
Sep 17, 20212 min read


Three Simple Words That Will Change How You Manage… Forever
Hey you, great advice giver. I have some bad news for you. That advice you like to give that you think is so valuable; it's not. Most of...
Sep 8, 20213 min read


What to Say When You Share Your Diagnosis Cancer at Work
Welcome to Part 4, the final part of The Sharing Cancer at Work series. This series focused on the who, when, what, how, and general...
Aug 24, 20214 min read


WHOM TO SHARE YOUR CANCER DIAGNOSIS WITH AT WORK
photo credit: https://www.instagram.com/lebrvn/ Welcome to part three of a little series called Sharing Cancer at Work. This series...
Aug 18, 20216 min read


Sharing the news. Setting your expectations.
Welcome to Part 2 in a four-part series called Sharing Cancer at Work. This series focuses on the who, when, what, how, and shared...
Aug 10, 20215 min read


Are You Camera Ready?
I landed on her Instagram page by accident. I hadn't been on her page in over a year. When I got there, I saw how big he'd grown. Seeing...
Aug 3, 20213 min read


To Tell or Not to Tell: How To Decide Whether Or Not to Reveal Your Cancer Diagnosis
photo credit to Miguel A. Amutio on Unsplash (This is Part 1 of a 4-part series that covers how to manage cancer and work.) “I only...
Jul 28, 20215 min read


Whatever You Think You Know About Cancer, Question It!
This is my friend Cooper. What I love about him is his deep and never-ending sense of curiosity. I am NEVER bored when I'm talking to him...
Jul 20, 20211 min read


You're Not Crazy for Hating Your Employee with Cancer
If you could put a label on your forehead to describe how you feel right now, what would it be? This is a photo of me wearing a face...
Jul 13, 20212 min read


How to Build Resilient Kids
How to build resilient kids!
May 31, 20213 min read
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