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I have been feeling sad these last two weeks. Just plain, good ol’ fashion sad. I didn’t initially see it as sadness. Instead, it showed...

February 18 would have been Art's 58th birthday. Over the next two weeks, I want to share my journey from a caregiver to a widow with...

This is a repost from Healing Art a blog I kept before and after Art died. Today's post is from November 20, 2006, three months after...

(This is part two. To read Part 1, click here.) A very important message! The items listed below are not just for your employee if they...

(This is a two-part series. Eight lessons in each part.) Being a great manager is hard. Being a great manager when you have a team member...

Today is National Relaxation Day! I just discovered this holiday, and I love it. National Relaxation Day advocates chilling out and...

Today I am returning from a five-day visit with my family. It was a family reunion, minus my oldest son and my oldest cousin and his...

You want to support your employee, coworker, or friend with cancer, but you're not gonna offer to make or send a meal, offer the clean...

I just took stock of my underwear drawer. It needs help. Having not dated for a few years, I had let plain colors and dullness in invade...

There is only one word to describe how I feel today, sad. Sadness is a hard emotion because, most of the time, we don’t want to feel it....

From the idea that some companies are holding back the cure to all cancers to cancer is contagious, there are many myths about cancer....

I had a rough few days last week. I didn't eat as well as I usually do. I worked longer hours than usual. I got less than 6 hours of...

"My father has cancer." Michelle (not her real name) told her boss. At first, her boss was understanding. 'We'll do whatever we can to...

“I didn’t want to share the story with you because I was afraid you’d cry.” I was talking to an ex-coworker of Art’s. They had reached...

Saturday will mark the 13th anniversary of Art's death. A few months ago, I was struggling with old, unexpressed grief. Old grief is...

You're a manager. You feel like you're a good one. Then one day, your employee tells you they have cancer, and you find yourself...

“I learned a lot about myself from my kids!” Most of the time, when a parent says that I find they mean they have learned how to be more...

March 2009 Four weeks before Art died A caregiver, to me, used to be the person who was paid to give care to an aging adult. It wasn’t...

Sometimes my book makes me sad. Art never got to read it. He wasn’t alive when I decided to write it. Sometimes I look at the book, and...

Pallas and Ezra 2012 We like to think we are trustworthy managers and employees but our actions are what make us trustworthy not our...

If you have an employee with cancer, your cancer bias may be hurting you, your team, and the employee with cancer. What are biases?...

I have a daily gratitude practice. It’s not fancy. I don’t skip around the house saying nice things about myself to myself. But it does...

If you've been following me on my blog or on IG, you might have seen this photo before. A photographer took it in December 2019, which...

I just spent about 3 hours over the last few days trying to construct this meaningful, inspiring post. One that would leave you feeling...