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This is How I'm Honoring the 12 Year Death Anniversary
o... on April 16th, I will be honoring the 12th death anniversary of my husband. I'm not sad right now. I am most grateful for the time I...
Apr 14, 20211 min read


Why We Say No To Help
I have a very generous friend who invites me to stay at her luxurious condo when she leaves town. And every time she offers, I almost...
Mar 2, 20213 min read


A Simple Way to Feel Special
I have this "idea" notepad that hangs in my shower. Ya know when you get that inspiring idea or remember the one thing you keep...
Jan 28, 20211 min read
13 Lessons About Comforting Others From A Cop
Sometimes you listen to someone speak, and your reaction is, "Yes. Yes. Yes!" and "So good to know I'm not the only one talking about...
Jan 22, 20213 min read


What The Heck is Cancer?
My late husband, Art and Dr. Wolin, the doctor who gave us 3 extra years with Art! Cancer. If you haven’t heard of the word, it’s because...
Jan 18, 20214 min read


You are not a bad manager for thinking this!
As my husband passed out, he vomited, and the pizza sauce from our dinner earlier was on the rug. My first thought? "Oh no! Now I'll...
Jan 15, 20213 min read


Is There Such a Thing As Cancer - Life Balance?
Balance. As a caregiver to my husband, I was super bad at balancing Art’s care, the care of our three kids, and my own self-care. The...
Jan 11, 20213 min read


Aha!! Found you!
You know when the world seems to crack open for you. All those little baby ideas just align so cleanly that your brain almost buzzes?...
Jan 7, 20212 min read


The Three Basic Rules for Supporting Your Friend with Cancer
Master these basic rules and creative and unique ways to support your friend with cancer will flow! Rule #1 It's not about you. Keep your...
Jan 4, 20212 min read


Does Idle Thought Exist?
There is no more self-contradictory concept than that of "idle thoughts." What gives rise to the perception of a whole world can hardly...
Dec 9, 20201 min read


Monday Joke Day
Always start your Monday off with a joke. And never take them for granted. Happy Monday! Make it a great day!
Dec 6, 20201 min read


Hurry Up and Spend! FSAs, Cancer and How to Help
It's that time of year when FSA account holders start to scramble to spend the funds in their accounts before year-end. This is me...
Nov 19, 20202 min read


The Second Most Perfect Gift for Your Employee with Cancer
One of my college-age sons wants to transfer schools. As a mother, my instinct is to get in there and … taking over! I want to search for...
Nov 4, 20204 min read


Is Your Employee with Cancer An Integrator Or A Segmentor? What to Know BEFORE You Help
You want to go beyond paperwork to support your employee with cancer, but what do you do? First, learn what not to say, and second, know...
Oct 20, 20203 min read


Don't Bring a Meal to Your Friend with Cancer
I bet you think bringing a meal to your friends with cancer is one of the most helpful ways to help– well, not necessarily. But we'll get...
Sep 14, 20205 min read


“You’re gonna look great bald!” and Other Microaggressions against Cancer Patients
“You’re gonna look great bald!” I said this to a friend of mine who had just told me she had cancer. I cringe every time I think about...
Aug 12, 20202 min read


Damn Brene Brown and her Power of Vulnerability
Day 3 After Nathan's Death I woke up thinking about Lisa and feeling super mad at Nathan for the pain he’s causing all of us. It’s easier...
May 26, 20202 min read


Empathy Postcard Book by Emily McDowell & Friends. Love this!
Cards are a great gift for cancer patients. But not all cards are equal! Sending cards to a friend with cancer can be challenging and the...
May 24, 20202 min read


Day 2 Opioid Death
Her son's death, my rage.
May 15, 20202 min read


Opioid Treatment: The Time It Didn't Work
Day One April 21 My youngest son texted me the news. “Nathan’s died.” I called my son. He was crying. Do you know the sound of an 18...
May 12, 20202 min read


DEATH AND BURGERS, AMERICAN IDOL AND BEER
Repost from www.artnagle.blogspot.com April 15, 2009 The day Art died. The vigil started when the four us found ourselves hanging out in...
Apr 16, 20201 min read


5 Services to Feed Your Friend With Cancer
Next time your friend with cancer needs food, you can skip the cooking! I have a confession to make. When someone asks me to bring...
Mar 10, 20202 min read


Picking Podcasts for Your Friend with Cancer
Podcasts a great escape! 51% of people in the US have listened to a podcast which means, there is so much more to helping a friend with...
Mar 6, 20204 min read


March 2, 2009 -
This is a repost from Healing Art A Wife's Journey Through Her Husband's Cancer and Into His Death, the blog I kept through both of Art's...
Mar 2, 20202 min read
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